Judith Allen Shone – Authour

June 8, 2020 © by Judith Allen Shone

“My Love’s diagnosis was over eight years ago — so long ago that the life I left behind has become a blurry mystery.”

Caregiving began for me just three years after our retirement. It is a commitment I fulfill to this day.

My personal story, told in my books “Is There Any Ice Cream?” (© 2019) and “Did You Hide the Cookies?” (© 2020) reveals reflective moments from the unanticipated emotional chaos that emerged while I, alone, was caregiver for My Love who has COPD, Alzheimer’s disease, vascular dementia, cancer (now in remission), anxiety, and elevated calcium, with occasional mysteries arising.

Readers have found these stories to be written with “such powerful honesty that they inspire and awaken courage.” Be sure to see what readers say in response to the books.

These two books invite you to experience day-to-day life, the trials, joys, and heartaches, of the world of spouse caregiving. I hopes I can be a connection to understanding that I wished I had found earlier in our journey. I hope caregivers will become aware of what might be ahead for them.

​Using creative initiative, I felt compelled to tell our stories to unmask the role of caregiver. Knowing there were millions of stories to be told, my wish was to share a glimpse of our world to those who were also untrained and anxious. I hoped to help caregivers strengthen their own spirit, power and determination, while taking a swipe at the stigma, the fears and misunderstandings, that surround Alzheimer’s world.

Put your arms around your shoulders and squeeze…that’s a bear hug from me. -JAS

Annie B and Archie Bear are the source of bears and bear hugs associated with these books.


Currently, I am working through a course at McMaster University, Caregiver Essentials, to continue to improve my “knowledge, confidence, and overall health & well-being,” as I learn more of how it all impacts the role of a caregiver. 

​I graduated with a BA in Art from Colorado State University in 1965. Before being a caregiver, I was a website designer, a writer and art teacher and spent over forty-two years in sales, advertising and marketing for exhibit firms and the corporate world in the US, and then in Canada.

My two children are grown, my two grandchildren are in college! Currently, I live with My Love (and loving memory of our dearest little Miss Muffin) in Ontario, Canada.

In Loving memory of
Miss Muffin 💖 2011-2020

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~ jas 🍦

“About the Author” © 2019 Judith Allen Shone updated 2020


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A DIFFERENT DRUMMER BOOKS
in Burlington, Ontario, can order my books, “Is There Any Ice Cream?” and “Did You Hide the Cookies?”
Drop in and ask Ian for a copy of both books in the series. 

Also available to order from:
Chapters/Indigo
Barnes & Noble
Local booksellers,or
from Amazon and online booksellers.

😊 Consider asking your library to order the book, possibly through their online ‘Request a Book‘ form or use our form, or make a phone call. So many more caregivers can be exposed to the world of caregiving to reduce their fears and help them find their courage if we help libraries be part of the educational chain of care. Our stories do help. Thank you. 😊